By the time Keith made it home on Friday, he was tired and grumpy. I took one look at his face, and revised all my plans for the evening. I had thought I would reward him for all the hard work and effort he had put in that week at work by taking him out to a nice cozy dinner, but that did not seem like a good idea now.
‘Get into the shower straight away, honey. Change into your sleep things, and then come down for dinner. We can eat then watch some TV, and then I want you in bed by nine. You look beat!’
Keith bristled, as I knew he would, even though I suspected my suggestion to stay home was all Keith really wanted out of the evening. His eyes were red from lack of sleep.
‘Come on, Dusty. It’s Friday night! Our night out, you promised.’ The expected whine.
‘Yes it is Friday, and yes I did say we might go out. MIGHT, young man.’
‘Bloody hell!’ he growled, in a low voice but still audible to me.
‘Watch it,’ I said warningly.
‘This is so unfair …’ He cursed, kicking out at the door frame and I LOOKED at him. His temper had been unpredictable lately and I had put that down to the stressful week he was having.
‘Do that again and we will be discussing this upstairs. Is that what you want?’
He scowled and took a minute to rein in his temper. ‘No,’ he finally said in a much milder tone.
‘Good. Now go shower. Upstairs. Now. You’ve got ten minutes.’
He stared at me for a while, but I went on setting the table, and finally he took himself off. There was only that much sulking you could do when you got ignored, and that was a lesson I had learnt from Keith himself. Fuss over him when he was irritable and he would kick up a bigger fuss. Leave him alone with firm instructions to do something – like take a bath - and he had a better chance of coming out of his mood.
I was placing our plates on the kitchen table when Keith came back down, looking refreshed and smelling rather nice. He smiled a little sheepishly and came and put his arms around me and we hugged for a while. His way of apologizing for his little fit of temper. I nuzzled his neck and he gurgled into my chest, and it felt really good to re-connect.
‘So did you get your project completed?’ I asked as we dug into the lasagna I had prepared.
‘Yes! God, that was excruciating!’
I grinned at him. ‘That was work, my boy! Get used to it.’
‘Oh well, I really don’t mind the work, you know. It’s actually quite fun and challenging.’ He made a face at me. ‘And yes, Mr Know-It-All, I did enjoy doing it and being part of the team. If only people around you pulled their weight, that is.’ He ended rather ominously.
‘I gather there were some team members who were not doing their fair share?’
‘Uhm ...‘He replied vaguely, with a tiny nod.
I looked over at him. ‘Here, put some salad on your plate, Keith.’ I piled some greens onto his plate as he held it up. ‘So your boss was pleased with the research you did for her?’
Being new to the team, Keith had felt insecure and worried about his ability to contribute. He had taken extra pains to labor over his part of the project assignment, spending hours on the computer, rushing to meet the deadline, and I wanted to know if he had been properly acknowledged for it.
‘Yeah, I guess. Well, actually yes, she was very pleased with my part of it.’ He however did not look too thrilled.
‘Oh? Isn’t that good?’ I asked, surprised by his lack of enthusiasm.
He shrugged and continued eating, looking mostly at his plate or the table, avoiding my eyes. My boy was not too happy about something and did not want to talk about it, so naturally I had to know.
I got up and went to the fridge. ‘Since its Friday and since we are not going out, let’s have a beer. It’ll help you unwind.’
Keith looked up at me, a little suspiciously, but he caught the can deftly, pulled off the tab and happily took a long gulp. He sighed with satisfaction.
‘So,’ I said conversationally, picking up the lukewarm trail, ‘tell me, was your boss happy with the other team members as well?’
Keith rolled his eyes and sighed dramatically. ‘Dusty, can we drop this? Can we NOT talk about the project any more? It’s completed, done, over, and I am getting so sick of it.’
I raised one eyebrow. Definitely something wrong there.
‘OK,’ I said in as neutral a tone as I could find, ‘all right … we’ll talk about something else. For now.’
Keith scowled some more.
‘How about we arrange to go to the movies tomorrow night with John and Danny?’
Keith looked up sharply. ‘Oh Christ! I see Danny every damn day in the office, do I have to see him on the weekends as well?’
There was a moment of pregnant silence as we looked at each other. I coolly assessed Keith while he flushed and looked down once more at his plate. ‘Sorry, didn’t mean to snap at you,’ he said contritely enough.
I nodded easily at him. I was beginning to link some dots together. ‘OK Keith. Let’s finish dinner, and then we can go curl up on the sofa. I think there’s a re-run of The Last Samurai on. Can you manage a bit more lasagna?’
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‘Get into the shower straight away, honey. Change into your sleep things, and then come down for dinner. We can eat then watch some TV, and then I want you in bed by nine. You look beat!’
Keith bristled, as I knew he would, even though I suspected my suggestion to stay home was all Keith really wanted out of the evening. His eyes were red from lack of sleep.
‘Come on, Dusty. It’s Friday night! Our night out, you promised.’ The expected whine.
‘Yes it is Friday, and yes I did say we might go out. MIGHT, young man.’
‘Bloody hell!’ he growled, in a low voice but still audible to me.
‘Watch it,’ I said warningly.
‘This is so unfair …’ He cursed, kicking out at the door frame and I LOOKED at him. His temper had been unpredictable lately and I had put that down to the stressful week he was having.
‘Do that again and we will be discussing this upstairs. Is that what you want?’
He scowled and took a minute to rein in his temper. ‘No,’ he finally said in a much milder tone.
‘Good. Now go shower. Upstairs. Now. You’ve got ten minutes.’
He stared at me for a while, but I went on setting the table, and finally he took himself off. There was only that much sulking you could do when you got ignored, and that was a lesson I had learnt from Keith himself. Fuss over him when he was irritable and he would kick up a bigger fuss. Leave him alone with firm instructions to do something – like take a bath - and he had a better chance of coming out of his mood.
I was placing our plates on the kitchen table when Keith came back down, looking refreshed and smelling rather nice. He smiled a little sheepishly and came and put his arms around me and we hugged for a while. His way of apologizing for his little fit of temper. I nuzzled his neck and he gurgled into my chest, and it felt really good to re-connect.
‘So did you get your project completed?’ I asked as we dug into the lasagna I had prepared.
‘Yes! God, that was excruciating!’
I grinned at him. ‘That was work, my boy! Get used to it.’
‘Oh well, I really don’t mind the work, you know. It’s actually quite fun and challenging.’ He made a face at me. ‘And yes, Mr Know-It-All, I did enjoy doing it and being part of the team. If only people around you pulled their weight, that is.’ He ended rather ominously.
‘I gather there were some team members who were not doing their fair share?’
‘Uhm ...‘He replied vaguely, with a tiny nod.
I looked over at him. ‘Here, put some salad on your plate, Keith.’ I piled some greens onto his plate as he held it up. ‘So your boss was pleased with the research you did for her?’
Being new to the team, Keith had felt insecure and worried about his ability to contribute. He had taken extra pains to labor over his part of the project assignment, spending hours on the computer, rushing to meet the deadline, and I wanted to know if he had been properly acknowledged for it.
‘Yeah, I guess. Well, actually yes, she was very pleased with my part of it.’ He however did not look too thrilled.
‘Oh? Isn’t that good?’ I asked, surprised by his lack of enthusiasm.
He shrugged and continued eating, looking mostly at his plate or the table, avoiding my eyes. My boy was not too happy about something and did not want to talk about it, so naturally I had to know.
I got up and went to the fridge. ‘Since its Friday and since we are not going out, let’s have a beer. It’ll help you unwind.’
Keith looked up at me, a little suspiciously, but he caught the can deftly, pulled off the tab and happily took a long gulp. He sighed with satisfaction.
‘So,’ I said conversationally, picking up the lukewarm trail, ‘tell me, was your boss happy with the other team members as well?’
Keith rolled his eyes and sighed dramatically. ‘Dusty, can we drop this? Can we NOT talk about the project any more? It’s completed, done, over, and I am getting so sick of it.’
I raised one eyebrow. Definitely something wrong there.
‘OK,’ I said in as neutral a tone as I could find, ‘all right … we’ll talk about something else. For now.’
Keith scowled some more.
‘How about we arrange to go to the movies tomorrow night with John and Danny?’
Keith looked up sharply. ‘Oh Christ! I see Danny every damn day in the office, do I have to see him on the weekends as well?’
There was a moment of pregnant silence as we looked at each other. I coolly assessed Keith while he flushed and looked down once more at his plate. ‘Sorry, didn’t mean to snap at you,’ he said contritely enough.
I nodded easily at him. I was beginning to link some dots together. ‘OK Keith. Let’s finish dinner, and then we can go curl up on the sofa. I think there’s a re-run of The Last Samurai on. Can you manage a bit more lasagna?’
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